The first days
Bills, paperwork, funeral costs, a human who answers. Slow the panic so grief has room.
From tragedy to legacy
We stay through the next season — so a family does not have to rebuild alone, and so we never become the parent they lost.
The problem
Relatives leave. The church returns to Sunday. A surviving parent is still looking for bank accounts, insurance, and a reason to get a child to practice on Saturday.
Who we walk with
A spouse. A mother. A father. Both. The name of the wound is less important than this: a household just lost the person who held the center, and the village usually lasts about fourteen days.
What we are not
The work
Bills, paperwork, funeral costs, a human who answers. Slow the panic so grief has room.
Keep the life they were already in. A child who lost a parent should not also lose the team.
Pay vetted attorneys and advisors to build trusts — the leg up they would have had at eighteen.
What “this season” looks like
Why this exists
His father died in 1992. There was life insurance. There were assets. There was no one to help his mother find them, understand them, or keep them. The church came, then left. The family kept moving. The money did not become a home.
Years later he watched a church forget another widow in the same two weeks — a woman who had buried sons, then a husband. If the people who are supposed to keep the widows and orphans will not, someone has to.
How a gift is used
40%
First days — funeral, bills, paperwork, a person on the other end of the phone.
35%
This season — the child’s actual life. Equipment, dues, a ride, a dress, a teammate.
25%
Legacy setup and operations — attorney fees for trusts, compliance, and a modest stipend so this is not leftover-hour charity.
The ask
$50,000
Seed the first year: walk with a small number of families through the first days and the season they are already in, and start the legal relationships that turn leftover money into a legacy instead of a scramble.
We sat with this for two years because taking people’s money is a serious thing. We are licensed, banked, and cleared to solicit in California. We are ready now.
From tragedy to legacy
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